Meet the Sex Coach!

I'm Andrea, a Sex & Relationship Coach and Sex Educator that blends the spiritual and scientific to help you experience deeper pleasure and sensual connection with self and other. Welcome to my digital content library, the Pleasure Collective.

The Pleasure Collective is a members-only, paid platform to provide more value for my clients and followers, so that you can get shame-free, pleasure-focused, anatomically accurate information

In my holistic approach to sexual wellness, I use tools from Tantra, mindfulness, and yoga to help people find new ways of relating to their own body and others. I am certified as a practitioner of Urban Tantra, a certified Sex Educator, a VITA Sex, Love & Relationship Coach, and I have a Master’s degree in Gender Studies from University of Hawaii at Manoa.

I self-identify as a white, cisgender bisexual woman. I'm also non-monogamous, married, and a kinky tantrika. I’m joyfully LGBTQIA-affirming and loving, and I love and support all sexual, gender, and relationship expressions. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Here’s why I've created a membership platform!

• Creativity and self-expression! Social media videos and captions are simply too short, leaving me with so much more to say and lacking context. Here I create longer-form video, written, and audio content to give you more information, deeper understanding, and be so much more valuable.
• Censorship and artistic freedom! IG and TikTok are heavily censored for sex educators, and Patreon was failing me as an 18+ creator. So we hired an excellent designer who built my website and this gorgeous platform.
• Business growth! The Pleasure Collective is an exclusive, members-only, paid platform to provide excellent sex education, playful practices, deep pleasure expansion, and so many resources. This is where you get to work with me in community: office hours, content discussions, and more await. This platform is also part of my 'access ladder' model of business: it's a low-cost investment, and is a great place to start for those on a lower budget, new to the work of sexual healing, or simply curious.

• Skills-building tip and tools for singles + couples to get more connected, explore new ways to enjoy sex, dive into sexy practices like erotic massage, Tantric expression, communication games.
• Pleasure practices: I approach sex and pleasure as a practice, and I’ll share my wisdom and skills so that you can learn how to learn new ways to touch yourself and your lovers, find out ways to integrate toys, kink, and explore sensation. These tools are for single folks and couples.
• Embodiment is the foundation! I’ll share my favorite practices for deeper embodiment, like breathwork, movement, sounding, energetic sexual practices, and more.
• Sexual wellness and sexual wholeness, finding ways to build more pleasurable self care into your life, products, toys, drugs, and supplements I love and how to use them safely.
• Sex ed for the adult bed! So many of my clients appreciate the (re)introduction to sexual anatomy, the psychological and physiological approach to desire, and how arousal works in our bodies.
• Mini masterclasses on conscious sexuality, men's erotic embodiment, erotic massage, relationship intelligence, Tantra, and so much more.

Thank you for following along on this journey, and for being a curious explorer and patron of your own sexual wellness.

Why We Need Pleasure Education

Here in the Collective (and in my workshops, classes, and programs) I share deliciously explicit pleasure education that we all need. I really believe that most of us have only experienced the tip of the iceberg when it comes to our pleasure and sexuality. But we're missing out!

Most of us don't have access to sex education that is empowering, informative, and pleasure-focused. On top of that, some of us hide our sexual brilliance under layers of shame, stigma, or trauma. And others still have not been accepted as sexual beings by our family or friends, and we've hidden away parts of ourselves.

It takes knowledge AND practice AND skills to become your most deliciously wild self and a totally magnetic lover, and that's what you'll get from me!

My educational content is created for you, but it's rooted in my lived experience as a seeker of sexual information and experiences. I know this work WORKS, because I've lived it.

I create content from a place of wisdom (lots of trainings and education and ongoing skills-building), openness (inclusive, loving, and affirming of the diversity of sexual experiences and expressions), and vulnerability (sharing my own stories and learnings along the way). I think my clients and students benefit from this multi-tiered approach.

As an educator, coach, and facilitator, my work is:

• Shame-free
• Pleasure-forward
• Wildly inclusive
• Radically honest
• Trauma-informed
• Queer, kinky, and Tantric
• Science-backed and therapeutically-informed
• Deeply connected to spirit and holistic wellness

How I Got Here!

In my late 30s, I started asking myself: is there more to sex and pleasure? The answer is a huge FUCK YES. I have found SO MUCH within, and so can you!

Sex is a pathway to knowing and appreciating our deepest selves. This might look like sexual healing, which helps us heal shame, stigma, and even trauma. It might look like practicing pleasure as a pathway towards wellness: deep pleasure practices that help us cultivate more self-loving and move us towards integration of our past, present, and future selves.

Learning relational skills and embodiment gives us a sense of sexual sophistication, which informs how we show up in the bedroom, but also how we show up with friends, family, and at work. And I truly believe this is the best work we can do in our lifetime.

Changing your sex life doesn't just change sex—it changes who you are, how you show up, how you heal, and how you love yourself. Healing sexual shame helps us set boundaries, resist tolerations, and get better at communicating our needs. And practicing sexual communication helps us become better friends, parents, and co-workers.

Sex is one portal of self-healing. Others may choose to find this healing via psychedelics, therapy, bodywork, meditation, education, or religion. As long as it helps you become your fullest self, I celebrate your path(s).

May the writings, audios, videos, workbooks and the community serve as a launching point for your next evolution and your wildest expression!

Want more?

If the Pleasure Collective is where you want to stay and learn, please delight yourself along the journey. If you want to engage with me outside of this digital particular space, here's how to work with me elsewhere online and in the real world:

• Join one of my online and in-person events
• Schedule a Tantra Mini Session: online sessions with curated embodiment experiences
• Commit to individual or couples coaching for practical and pleasurable skills-building
• Read more pleasure musings on Substack
• Stay connected via newsletter and social media (Instagram, Facebook, and sorta on TikTok)