Andrea Bertoli
Pleasure Collective
The Pleasure Collective

A private space for deeper pleasure.

Videos, audio practices, worksheets, and teaching posts gathered into one warm, easy-to-browse home for embodied intimacy and connection.

Welcome to the Pleasure Collective

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Begin with your Body

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Audio

Organic Arousal: Tending to Your Inner Fire (20-Minute Practice)

Begin with your Body

Tend to your organic arousal with this guided 20-minute practice for women.

Audio

Your Pleasure Ceiling—and How to Shatter It!

Begin with your Body
pleasurepleasure practicessacred sexuality & tantra

Your body has unlimited capacity for deep, whole-body, nourishing pleasure.

Video

Four Layers of Touch

Begin with your Body
couples practicespleasure practicesself-pleasure

Skin is our largest sex organ: literally every nerve fiber offers possibilities for pleasure. Here's how to tap in...

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A Five-Minute Pussy Breath Practice

Begin with your Body
pleasure practicessacred sexuality & tantrawomen's sexuality

Here's a practice that I use to help me tap into my body, relax any bracing (tightness), and bring intentionality to my pussy.

Video

Erotic Embodiment for Men

Begin with your Body
desire & libidoerotic embodimentmen's sexuality

Three ways that you can become a more connected, present lover 💘

Audio

Your Wild, Intuitive Animal Body

Begin with your Body
erotic embodimentpleasure practiceswomen's sexuality

Honoring our animal body is so vital. Here's how to practice tuning in... and getting more soft, wild, and free.

Audio

Sensate Practice for Everyone

Begin with your Body
couples practicesdesire & libidopleasure practices

At the most basic, sensate practice is a simple touch practice for couples. While the action of the touch seems simple, the goal is really profound.

Video

Orgasm & Ejaculation Control for Men

Begin with your Body
desire & libidosexuality

You can learn to separate orgasm and ejaculation and become a multi-orgasmic man 💦

Monthly Workshop Replays

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Video

Relationship Medicine

Monthly Workshop Replays
communicationcouples practicesmonthly workshop replays

Your relationship can be your deepest medicine.

Video

Tantra & Perimenopause

Monthly Workshop Replays
hormonesmonthly workshop replaysperimenopause

Why Tantra is the medicine we need during our perimenopausal transitions + five mindful tools to help you move through this with grace.

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Aroused & Altered

Monthly Workshop Replays
desire & libidomonthly workshop replayspleasure practices

Altered and aroused: How can medicinal herbs, plants, and fungi can help us explore our pleasure? 🍄🌿

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Repair & Reckoning

Monthly Workshop Replays
couples practicesmonthly workshop replaysrelationships

Tender conversation and healing tools focused on Repair & Reckoning

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Polarity & Desire

Monthly Workshop Replays
couples practiceserotic embodimentmonthly workshop replays

Polarity is the erotic charge that happens when two opposing energies meet—and it's super hot!

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Erotic Liberation

Monthly Workshop Replays
erotic embodimentmen's sexualitymonthly workshop replays

Being your most erotic self means being FREE — free from performance, unbound from shame, distanced from your inherited stories.

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Sexual Sophistication

Monthly Workshop Replays
erotic embodimentmonthly workshop replayssexuality

Exploring sophistication as a combination of emotional, psychological, and sexual intelligence.

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Your Erotic Mosaic

Monthly Workshop Replays
couples practicesmen's sexualitymonthly workshop replays

Your 'erotic mosaic' encompasses who you like, what you like, how you like things, how you're wired, and more.

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Eroticism in Motion: 5 Practices for Pleasure

Monthly Workshop Replays
erotic embodimentmonthly workshop replayssacred sexuality & tantra

Five mindful, delicious practices to awaken your sensuality, presence, and find the sacred pause within.

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Erotic Imagination & Sexual Fantasy

Monthly Workshop Replays
fantasymen's sexualitymonthly workshop replays

Fantasy! The joy of it, the power of it, and how erotic imagination can open up creativity in your sex life.

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Be a Masterful Lover

Monthly Workshop Replays
erotic embodimentmen's sexualitymonthly workshop replays

A masterful lover shows up with presence, power, and with contained erotic energy.

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Deep Self Pleasure Practices

Monthly Workshop Replays
men's sexualitymonthly workshop replayspleasure practices

Self-pleasure is more than just getting off... it's really a gorgeous self-care practice.

Video

Deeper Eroticism for Men

Monthly Workshop Replays
erotic embodimentmen's sexualitymonthly workshop replays

Erotic embodiment is a practice of being more in your body, and embracing your innate sexual energy. When we're more embodied, we can engage with our

Video

Hot & Sexy Perimenopause

Monthly Workshop Replays
monthly workshop replaysperimenopausesex & aging

If you will go through menopause (or love someone who will), this workshop is a MUST WATCH!

Video

The Erotic Within

Monthly Workshop Replays
erotic embodimentmen's sexualitymonthly workshop replays

The esoteric, wild, beautiful concept of the EROTIC is HUGE... we're just dipping our toes into this immersive conversation today.

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Sex as Yoga, Yoga as Sex

Monthly Workshop Replays
erotic embodimentmen's sexualitymindful sex

The skills and practices that drop us into deeper experiences on the yoga mat also help us drop into deeper pleasure in our bedrooms.

Audio

Four Foundations of Mindful Sex

Monthly Workshop Replays
couples practiceserotic embodimentmen's sexuality

These practices have absolutely transformed my sex life, and I know they have transformed the sex for my clients. An audio of a workshop replay.

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra

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Worksheet

Tantric Date Night Workbook

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
sacred sexuality & tantraworkbook

A self-guided journey into you Tantric Date Night

Video

Extended States of Pleasure

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
desire & libidoorgasmssacred sexuality & tantra

In this video, I'll share my thoughts about extended states of pleasure and how you can learn to stay using awareness, breath, and touch.

Article

The Power of Polarity

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
couples practiceserotic embodimentmindful sex

Learn to play in the tension between two opposing energies.

Video

What is Sacred Sexuality & How Do You Practice It?

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
monthly workshop replayssacred sexuality & tantra

In this workshop, you will learn to love your sensuality, explore eroticism, and create healing sexual and energetic spaces.

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Solo Tantra Practice

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
monthly workshop replayssacred sexuality & tantra

A workshop replay sharing wisdom from our Tantric adventures and a 30-minute solo tantra practice featuring touch, breath, body awareness, and sexual

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Pleasure Over Performance

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
desire & libidosacred sexuality & tantrasexuality

Reimagine your sexual pleasure by removing the performance.

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Setting up Sensual Spaces

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
couples practicessacred sexuality & tantrasex worth having

Delight your senses with these suggestions for creating intimate, ritual spaces.

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Quickies: Peaks & Valley Orgasms

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
erotic embodimentorgasmsquickies

Your body has capacity for multi-orgasmic bliss! There is a lot more to orgasm than just a few seconds of pelvic contractions.

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Holistic Pleasure: My Healing Journey

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra
sacred sexuality & tantraself-pleasuresexual healing

This work WORKS—and I know, because I've moved through all of it to heal, awaken, and transform my sexuality.

Masterclasses & Series

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Sexual Foundations for Men: Workshop 5 (Pleasure Practices for Cocks)

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

Four incredible ways to awaken sexual pleasure in your body and explore the magic of your cock.

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Sexual Foundations for Men: Workshop 4 (Sex, Aging & Performace)

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

Take control of your sexuality as you age! Sex can get better, more pleasure-focused, and more deep. Let's dive in!

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Sexual Foundations for Men: Workshop 2 (Erotic Presence & Creative Pleasure)

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

In Part 2 of our Masterclass series, we explore Erotic Presence & Creative Pleasure for men.

Video

Sexual Foundations for Men: Workshop 1 (Erotic Embodiment & Sexual Mastery)

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

Erotic embodiment and sexual mastery for men: Part 1 of my Masterclass series

Article

The Soft Cock: Celebrating His Softness (Part 3)

Masterclasses & Series

Learning how to have sex beyond our standard scripts can be really healing for all of us, and help us connect in dynamic ways.

Video

The Soft Cock: Celebrating His Softness (Part 2)

Masterclasses & Series
desire & libidoejaculationmen's sexuality

Learning to love and play with a soft cock is super fun, very sexy, and can be a lovely way to experience pleasure without an erection.

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The Soft Cock: Celebrating His Softness (Part 1)

Masterclasses & Series
desire & libidomen's sexualitysexuality

Celebrating softness, tenderness, and erectile unpredictability. This is part one of a three-part series.

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Sexual Foundations for Women: Workshop 5, Pleasure Practices

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

Practices and skills to take your sensuality and sexual expression to the next level.

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Sexual Foundations for Women: Workshop 4 (Pleasure, Power & Perimenopause)

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

Not only can sex get better as you get older, you also have the POWER OF PLEASURE in your hands at all times.

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Sexual Foundations: Workshop 3 (Shame, Trauma & Healing)

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

A series for men to transform your sex life: pleasure, power, healing, and more.

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Sexual Foundations for Women: Workshop 2 (Organic Arousal & Erotic Playfulness)

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

Press play to begin this Pleasure Collective video.

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Sexual Foundations for Women: Workshop 1 (Mapping Pleasure & Reclaiming Desire)

Masterclasses & Series
workshop series

Press play to begin this Pleasure Collective video.

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Rethinking Sex // Mini Masterclass (Part 5)

Masterclasses & Series
couples practicesmen's sexualityrethinking sex masterclass

Part 5 of my yummy mini masterclass: Rethinking Sex!

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Rethinking Sex // Mini Masterclass (Part 4)

Masterclasses & Series
couples practicesmen's sexualityrethinking sex masterclass

Mini Masterclass: Rethinking Sex. Today we focus on expansive pleasure in the body beyond intercourse.

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Rethinking Sex // Mini Masterclass (Part 3)

Masterclasses & Series
couples practicesmen's sexualityrethinking sex masterclass

Let's do some sex education in Part 3 of my mini masterclass: Rethinking Sex

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Rethinking Sex // Mini Masterclass (Part 2)

Masterclasses & Series
couples practicesmen's sexualityrethinking sex masterclass

Part 2 of my mini masterclass: Rethinking Sex, Expand your Definition of Pleasure and Play 💕

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Rethinking Sex // Mini Masterclass (Part 1)

Masterclasses & Series
couples practicesmen's sexualityrethinking sex masterclass

My first The Pleasure Collective Mini Masterclass! Rethinking Sex: Expand your Definition of Pleasure and Play 💕

Pleasure Practices

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Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)

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Vintage Penthouse Forum: A Sex Ed Perspective

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
erotic arteroticismpleasure

This was the last video I recorded for Patreon—the last time I let myself be censored by them while speaking about... censorship! 🤦🏻‍♀️

Video

Sex Toys for Boys

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
desire & libidosexuality

Give your body some delicious pleasure with these penis- and butt-focused toys!

Video

Spectatoring, Mindfulness & Sexuality

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)

Spectatoring—watching yourself have sex rather than being in the moment and enjoying sex—is very common, and yet most of us do not yet realize it's so

Video

My Ketamine Experience

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
about me

Ketamine is a new medicine for me, and here's a video and story about my deeply profound experience.

Article

Fabulous Sex & Pleasure Documentaries

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
anatomy & physiologydocumentariespleasure practices

Four of my favorite sex and pleasure documentaries to help you learn more about your body, explore sex education with lots of different teachers, and

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Butt Stuff for Beginners

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
desire & libidosexuality

I'm sharing my best tips and toys to explore new play!

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How I Learned to Orgasm

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
desire & libidoorgasmssex toys

Expand your orgasmic capacity with pleasure exploration... you have unlimited capacity!

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Let's Talk about Bisexuality!

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
about mestart here

I realized I was bisexual at a very young age—here is a bit of my story!

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Stoned Sex

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
about mealtered statescannabis

Let's talk about how to explore cannabis in the bedroom 🌿

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Erectile Unpredictability

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
desire & libidomen's sexualitysex & aging

A question from a reader explores the vulnerable truth of erectile unpredictability.

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Normalize This During Sex!

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
desire & libidosexuality

A quickie video sharing my thoughts about things we need to normalize during sex!

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Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
anatomy & physiologydesire & libidorelationships

Some of us are wired to have SPONTANEOUS DESIRE, while others are wired to have RESPONSIVE DESIRE. Knowing this about yourself and your partner is fou

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What Does Your Orgasm Mean to You?

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
anatomy & physiologydesire & libidoself-pleasure

What does your orgasm actually mean to you, and what does your partner's mean to you? That's the question at the center of this video.

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The Myth of Penetration (I Can’t Orgasm from Penetration—is that Normal?)

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
anatomy & physiologycouples practicesrelationships

You're not broken or abnormal if you can't come from penetration alone. Most women require some type of clitorial stimulation before, during, or after

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Anal Play for Men: Let's Explore the Pleasure Within!

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
anal pleasuredesire & libidomen's sexuality

The five most important things you need to know to explore anal pleasure 🍑

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Your Pleasure is Your Power: Nail that Talk Speaker Series

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
about mepleasure practicessensuality

Andrea’s first public talk about her work as a Sex Coach—anatomy, desire, and self-pleasure as self-care.

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8 Fun Facts about Sexual Anatomy

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
anatomy & physiologydesire & libidomen's sexuality

Knowing how your sexual anatomy works is important to know yourself, your needs, and your sensaations!

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Deeper Touch & Expanded Pleasure for Men Workshop

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
desire & libidomen's sexualitymonthly workshop replays

A workshop for men that want to feel more and be more in the bedroom.

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Perimenopausal Pleasures: Let it Be a Launchpad 🚀

Sex Ed for the Adult Bed (anatomy, desire, body stuff)
desire & libidoperimenopausesensuality

On hormones, embodied pleasure, education, healing, and why this is YOUR MOMENT to RECLAIM YOUR BODY!

Thriving Relationships

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Building Emotionally Safe Relationships

Thriving Relationships
relationships

My partner and I use these foundational tools to cultivate safety for each other in our partnership,

Article

How We Play: Slow Sunday

Thriving Relationships
erotic embodimenthow we playmen's sexuality

Lovemaking on a slow Sunday... on slowness, presence, and finding what's alive in each moment.

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Slow Love: A Reading from Psychology Today

Thriving Relationships
intimacyrelationshipssensuality

What can we learn from a practice of slow love?

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Purple Sex

Thriving Relationships
communicationcouples practicesrelationships

You need to know what purple sex is and how to get out of the purple haze in your partnership! 💜

Video

Improve Your Love Life with Attachment Theory

Thriving Relationships
attachment theorymonthly workshop replaysrelationships

I pulled this workshop from the archives while organizing my zoom library! My Love and I taught this online workshop in August 2023, and it represents

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Loves, Fears & Desires: A Connection Practice for Couples

Thriving Relationships
pleasure practicesrelationships

This simple and sweet conversation practice can help you get really deep, really fast, and help you know yourself and your partner so much better. May

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Roadblocks to Pleasure Conversations

Thriving Relationships
communicationcouples practicesrelationships

Having the hard conversations about sex and pleasure.

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6 Healing Sex Tips for Couples

Thriving Relationships
communication toolscouples practicesmindful sex

Six incredible frameworks for better understanding your partnership. Guaranteed to create change! 🌻

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40 Reasons to Have Sex

Thriving Relationships
desire & libidomen's sexualityrelationships

There are lots of reasons to want to have sex—and for most of us, it's not because we're horny 😈

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Shared Pleasure: Mutual Masturbation for Couples

Thriving Relationships
couples practiceserotic embodimentperimenopause

Mutual masturbation has been such a delicious, transformative form of play for both my partner and me... learn more about the how and why!

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The Ecosystem of Intimacy

Thriving Relationships
couples practicesintimacymindful sex

The ecosystem of intimacy is how you create space for great sex to emerge.

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Sex, Pleasure, and Relationships: an Interview with Kiss & Tell Magazine

Thriving Relationships
couples practicesdesire & intimacyrelationships

Yay, I was interviewed with Dr. Sabrina and Dr. Jenny of the Kiss & Tell Magazine. Here's our podcast!

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Mindful Intimacy & Deeper Sex

Thriving Relationships
men's sexualityrelationships

Mindful intimacy is a sweet, slow approach to sex and pleasure.

Article

How To Talk About Sex & Pleasure

Thriving Relationships
communication toolscouples practicesmindful sex

Talking about sex is hard for most of us—this will make it easier.

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews

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Quickies: Intrusive Thoughts Are Ruining Your Sex Life

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
desire & libidorelationships

Your 'monkey mind' is going to jump around—learning to come back to the body is how you take it back!

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Lubes to LOVE

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
lubeQ&Aquickies

There are so many lubes to love. Here is a primer on the various types and how you can find which is best for you.

Video

How to Use the Deia Vibrating Feather

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
Q&Aquickies

The Deia Vibrating Feather is one of the most unique sex toys I've ever tried, and I'm so excited to share it with you all.

Video

Explore Butt Plugs!

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
anal pleasuremen's sexualityquickies

Learn about the different types of butt plugs you can use, benefits of each, and some anal play tips.

Article

Our First Threesome

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
bisexualnon-monogamysex toys

Once upon a time, we had a playdate with a pretty new friend in our favorite city in Texas.

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Quickies: Unboxing a New Toy

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
products & booksquickiessex toys

A Sex Coach unboxes her new sex toy.

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Questions for the Sex Coach: Mismatched Libido

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
communicationdesire & libidoQ&A

Press play to begin this Pleasure Collective video.

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Want by Gillian Anderson // Book Review

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
products & booksquickieswomen's sexuality

What do women really WANT? A book that gives us the answers.

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Questions for the Sex Coach: Orgasm Delay for Men

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
anatomy & physiologyerotic embodimentmen's sexuality

This question comes to us from a man that has a lot of experience with exploring extended states of pleasure, and yet can't quite master the non-ejacu

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Questions for the Sex Coach: Should We Fuck First?

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
communicationcouplesmen's sexuality

Here's a recent question I got that reflects a common challenge in heterosexual partnerships, including some of my own experiences

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Quickies: Can You Desensitize Your Clitoris with a Vibrator? (NO!)

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
anatomy & physiologyQ&Asex toys

Quick answer: NO! You're not going to 'wear it out!'

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Quickies: Will a Threesome Run My Relationship?

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
non-monogamyQ&Arelationships

When I tell folks what I do for work, I get to hear the juicy questions!

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Quickies: Introduction to the Erotic Blueprints

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
erotic embodimentquickiessex coaching

The Erotic Blueprints is a framework for helping us better understand who we are as sexual beings.

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Coming Out as a Bisexual Babe

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
about mebisexualsexuality

I'm a bisexual babe in a straight-presenting relationship… here’s part of my story! 🏳️‍🌈

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Quickies: Vella Product Review

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
cannabisproducts & booksquickies

A new arousal product that's in testing mode in our bedroom.

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Questions for the Sex Coach!

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
desire & libidoQ&Arelationships

I'm answering a handful of questions that I've collected from students and clients to share with me!

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In My Bedroom: Lube Exploration!

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
products & booksQ&Aquickies

Here's a peek at my three favorite lubes, and why I choose one over the other.

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In My Bedroom: Two Favorite Vibes

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
Q&Aquickies

Here is a video about my two favorite vibes, and why you might like to try one or the other.

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