Begin with your body.
Andrea’s recommended starting sequence: presence, slowness, attention, intention, and shame-free connection.

Videos, audio practices, worksheets, and teaching posts gathered into one warm, easy-to-browse home for embodied intimacy and connection.
Andrea’s recommended starting sequence: presence, slowness, attention, intention, and shame-free connection.
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Tend to your organic arousal with this guided 20-minute practice for women.
Your body has unlimited capacity for deep, whole-body, nourishing pleasure.
Skin is our largest sex organ: literally every nerve fiber offers possibilities for pleasure. Here's how to tap in...
Here's a practice that I use to help me tap into my body, relax any bracing (tightness), and bring intentionality to my pussy.
Three ways that you can become a more connected, present lover 💘
Honoring our animal body is so vital. Here's how to practice tuning in... and getting more soft, wild, and free.
At the most basic, sensate practice is a simple touch practice for couples. While the action of the touch seems simple, the goal is really profound.
You can learn to separate orgasm and ejaculation and become a multi-orgasmic man 💦
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Your relationship can be your deepest medicine.
Why Tantra is the medicine we need during our perimenopausal transitions + five mindful tools to help you move through this with grace.
Altered and aroused: How can medicinal herbs, plants, and fungi can help us explore our pleasure? 🍄🌿
Tender conversation and healing tools focused on Repair & Reckoning
Polarity is the erotic charge that happens when two opposing energies meet—and it's super hot!
Being your most erotic self means being FREE — free from performance, unbound from shame, distanced from your inherited stories.
Exploring sophistication as a combination of emotional, psychological, and sexual intelligence.
Your 'erotic mosaic' encompasses who you like, what you like, how you like things, how you're wired, and more.
Five mindful, delicious practices to awaken your sensuality, presence, and find the sacred pause within.
Fantasy! The joy of it, the power of it, and how erotic imagination can open up creativity in your sex life.
A masterful lover shows up with presence, power, and with contained erotic energy.
Self-pleasure is more than just getting off... it's really a gorgeous self-care practice.
Erotic embodiment is a practice of being more in your body, and embracing your innate sexual energy. When we're more embodied, we can engage with our …
If you will go through menopause (or love someone who will), this workshop is a MUST WATCH!
The esoteric, wild, beautiful concept of the EROTIC is HUGE... we're just dipping our toes into this immersive conversation today.
The skills and practices that drop us into deeper experiences on the yoga mat also help us drop into deeper pleasure in our bedrooms.
These practices have absolutely transformed my sex life, and I know they have transformed the sex for my clients. An audio of a workshop replay.
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A self-guided journey into you Tantric Date Night
In this video, I'll share my thoughts about extended states of pleasure and how you can learn to stay using awareness, breath, and touch.
Learn to play in the tension between two opposing energies.
In this workshop, you will learn to love your sensuality, explore eroticism, and create healing sexual and energetic spaces.
A workshop replay sharing wisdom from our Tantric adventures and a 30-minute solo tantra practice featuring touch, breath, body awareness, and sexual …
Reimagine your sexual pleasure by removing the performance.
Delight your senses with these suggestions for creating intimate, ritual spaces.
Your body has capacity for multi-orgasmic bliss! There is a lot more to orgasm than just a few seconds of pelvic contractions.
This work WORKS—and I know, because I've moved through all of it to heal, awaken, and transform my sexuality.
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Four incredible ways to awaken sexual pleasure in your body and explore the magic of your cock.
Take control of your sexuality as you age! Sex can get better, more pleasure-focused, and more deep. Let's dive in!
In Part 2 of our Masterclass series, we explore Erotic Presence & Creative Pleasure for men.
Erotic embodiment and sexual mastery for men: Part 1 of my Masterclass series
Learning how to have sex beyond our standard scripts can be really healing for all of us, and help us connect in dynamic ways.
Learning to love and play with a soft cock is super fun, very sexy, and can be a lovely way to experience pleasure without an erection.
Celebrating softness, tenderness, and erectile unpredictability. This is part one of a three-part series.
Practices and skills to take your sensuality and sexual expression to the next level.
Not only can sex get better as you get older, you also have the POWER OF PLEASURE in your hands at all times.
A series for men to transform your sex life: pleasure, power, healing, and more.
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Part 5 of my yummy mini masterclass: Rethinking Sex!
Mini Masterclass: Rethinking Sex. Today we focus on expansive pleasure in the body beyond intercourse.
Let's do some sex education in Part 3 of my mini masterclass: Rethinking Sex
Part 2 of my mini masterclass: Rethinking Sex, Expand your Definition of Pleasure and Play 💕
My first The Pleasure Collective Mini Masterclass! Rethinking Sex: Expand your Definition of Pleasure and Play 💕
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Storytime: a chance to be less educational and more autobiographical about how two sexperts play in our daily life.
In service of sharing more of myself with y’all (and the world), please enjoy this second installment of how we play based on a Sexy Sunday...
Welcome to the sexiest homework you've ever explored!
Drop in to this a guided practice to help you explore Tantric play for one! Using breath, body scan, and self-touch, you'll learn how to generate and …
You hold all the power for your own sexual healing and sensual pleasure... but how do you learn how to do it?
Ecstatic Breathwork (aka, breath & energy orgasm practice) is one of my favorite classes to teach. Here's what you need to know!
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This was the last video I recorded for Patreon—the last time I let myself be censored by them while speaking about... censorship! 🤦🏻♀️
Give your body some delicious pleasure with these penis- and butt-focused toys!
Spectatoring—watching yourself have sex rather than being in the moment and enjoying sex—is very common, and yet most of us do not yet realize it's so…
Ketamine is a new medicine for me, and here's a video and story about my deeply profound experience.
Four of my favorite sex and pleasure documentaries to help you learn more about your body, explore sex education with lots of different teachers, and …
I'm sharing my best tips and toys to explore new play!
Expand your orgasmic capacity with pleasure exploration... you have unlimited capacity!
I realized I was bisexual at a very young age—here is a bit of my story!
Let's talk about how to explore cannabis in the bedroom 🌿
A question from a reader explores the vulnerable truth of erectile unpredictability.
A quickie video sharing my thoughts about things we need to normalize during sex!
Some of us are wired to have SPONTANEOUS DESIRE, while others are wired to have RESPONSIVE DESIRE. Knowing this about yourself and your partner is fou…
What does your orgasm actually mean to you, and what does your partner's mean to you? That's the question at the center of this video.
You're not broken or abnormal if you can't come from penetration alone. Most women require some type of clitorial stimulation before, during, or after…
The five most important things you need to know to explore anal pleasure 🍑
Andrea’s first public talk about her work as a Sex Coach—anatomy, desire, and self-pleasure as self-care.
Knowing how your sexual anatomy works is important to know yourself, your needs, and your sensaations!
A workshop for men that want to feel more and be more in the bedroom.
On hormones, embodied pleasure, education, healing, and why this is YOUR MOMENT to RECLAIM YOUR BODY!
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My partner and I use these foundational tools to cultivate safety for each other in our partnership,
Lovemaking on a slow Sunday... on slowness, presence, and finding what's alive in each moment.
What can we learn from a practice of slow love?
You need to know what purple sex is and how to get out of the purple haze in your partnership! 💜
I pulled this workshop from the archives while organizing my zoom library! My Love and I taught this online workshop in August 2023, and it represents…
This simple and sweet conversation practice can help you get really deep, really fast, and help you know yourself and your partner so much better. May…
Having the hard conversations about sex and pleasure.
Six incredible frameworks for better understanding your partnership. Guaranteed to create change! 🌻
There are lots of reasons to want to have sex—and for most of us, it's not because we're horny 😈
Mutual masturbation has been such a delicious, transformative form of play for both my partner and me... learn more about the how and why!
The ecosystem of intimacy is how you create space for great sex to emerge.
Yay, I was interviewed with Dr. Sabrina and Dr. Jenny of the Kiss & Tell Magazine. Here's our podcast!
Mindful intimacy is a sweet, slow approach to sex and pleasure.
Talking about sex is hard for most of us—this will make it easier.
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Your 'monkey mind' is going to jump around—learning to come back to the body is how you take it back!
There are so many lubes to love. Here is a primer on the various types and how you can find which is best for you.
The Deia Vibrating Feather is one of the most unique sex toys I've ever tried, and I'm so excited to share it with you all.
Learn about the different types of butt plugs you can use, benefits of each, and some anal play tips.
Once upon a time, we had a playdate with a pretty new friend in our favorite city in Texas.
A Sex Coach unboxes her new sex toy.
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What do women really WANT? A book that gives us the answers.
This question comes to us from a man that has a lot of experience with exploring extended states of pleasure, and yet can't quite master the non-ejacu…
Here's a recent question I got that reflects a common challenge in heterosexual partnerships, including some of my own experiences
Quick answer: NO! You're not going to 'wear it out!'
When I tell folks what I do for work, I get to hear the juicy questions!
The Erotic Blueprints is a framework for helping us better understand who we are as sexual beings.
I'm a bisexual babe in a straight-presenting relationship… here’s part of my story! 🏳️🌈
A new arousal product that's in testing mode in our bedroom.
I'm answering a handful of questions that I've collected from students and clients to share with me!
Here's a peek at my three favorite lubes, and why I choose one over the other.
Here is a video about my two favorite vibes, and why you might like to try one or the other.