Andrea Bertoli
Pleasure Collective
The Pleasure Collective

A private space for deeper pleasure.

Videos, audio practices, worksheets, and teaching posts gathered into one warm, easy-to-browse home for embodied intimacy and connection.

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Mindful Erotic Practice for Women

A 35-minute guided audio for organic arousal and orgasmic capacity

Drop deep into your pleasure and build your orgasmic capacity. This guided audio practice helps you tap into your organic arousal and get to know your beautiful body inside and out.

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Mindful Erotic Practice for Men

A 25-minute guided audio for sensation, slowness, and embodied pleasure

Slow all the way down, tune into sensation, and discover what is available in your body when you stop rushing toward release. This practice builds mindful sex skills in audio form.

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Ecstatic Breathwork

A guided breath practice for ecstatic states and whole-body arousal

Use breath, sound, body, and mind to access sexual energy and explore orgasmic states without touch. A magical portal into your deepest pleasure and deepest experience of self.

Digital product$45
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Tantric Massage for All Bodies

A digital workbook for erotic massage, touch, and organic arousal

Explore deliciously erotic massage techniques and learn about your lover's body in entirely new ways. This workbook is for solo practice or partnered exploration.

Workshop replay$69
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Sexless Partnerships: Where Do We Go From Here?

A two-hour workshop replay with Andrea Bertoli and Christopher Frier Brown

A workshop replay exploring one of the most tender topics in partnership: why sexlessness happens, what your real options are, and how to find your way back to your own erotic self.

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Tantra Mini Sessions

A one-hour deep dive into intimate connection

A beautiful container for your pleasure. Each session offers you a chance to build connection with your own body (or your beloved) with various practices—all real, embodied work that you carry home with you.

Begin with your Body

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Monthly Workshop Replays

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Aroused & Altered

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pleasure practicespsychedelicssex worth having

How can medicinal herbs, plants, and fungi can help us explore our pleasure? 🍄🌿 Let's explore being altered and aroused!

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Repair & Reckoning

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Workshop Replay: Repair & Reckoning // Love in Adulthood Monthly (June 2026)

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Polarity & Desire

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Polarity is the erotic charge that happens when two opposing energies meet—and it's super hot!

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Erotic Liberation

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Being your most erotic self means being FREE — free from performance, unbound from shame, distanced from your inherited stories.

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Sexual Sophistication

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Exploring sophistication as a combination of emotional, psychological, and sexual intelligence.

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Your Erotic Mosaic

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Your 'erotic mosaic' encompasses who you like, what you like, how you like things, how you're wired, and more.

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Eroticism in Motion: 5 Practices for Pleasure

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Monthly Workshop ReplaysSacred Sexuality & Tantra

Five mindful, delicious practices to awaken your sensuality, presence, and find the sacred pause within.

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Relationship Medicine

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Your relationship can be your deepest medicine.

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Erotic Imagination & Sexual Fantasy

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Fantasy! The joy of it, the power of it, and how erotic imagination can open up creativity in your sex life.

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Hot & Sexy Perimenopause

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Monthly Workshop Replays

If you will go through menopause (or love someone who will), this workshop is a MUST WATCH!

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The Erotic Within

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Monthly Workshop Replays

The esoteric, wild, beautiful concept of the EROTIC is HUGE... we're just dipping our toes into this immersive conversation today.

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Deeper Eroticism for Men

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Erotic embodiment is a practice of being more in your body, and embracing your innate sexual energy. When we're more embodied, we can engage with our

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Deep Self Pleasure Practices

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Monthly Workshop Replays

Self-pleasure is more than just getting off... it's really a gorgeous self-care practice.

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Be a Masterful Lover

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Monthly Workshop Replays

A masterful lover shows up with presence, power, and with contained erotic energy.

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Sex as Yoga, Yoga as Sex

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Monthly Workshop Replays

The skills and practices that drop us into deeper experiences on the yoga mat also help us drop into deeper pleasure in our bedrooms.

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Four Foundations of Mindful Sex

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Monthly Workshop Replays

These practices have absolutely transformed my sex life, and I know they have transformed the sex for my clients. An audio of a workshop replay.

Sacred Sexuality & Tantra

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Pleasure Practices

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Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire

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Perimenopausal Pleasures: Let it Be a Launchpad 🚀

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Body & DesirePerimenopausal PleasuresPleasure

On hormones, embodied pleasure, education, healing, and why this is YOUR MOMENT to RECLAIM YOUR BODY!

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How I Learned to Orgasm

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Body & DesireSex

Expand your orgasmic capacity with pleasure exploration... you have unlimited capacity!

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Stoned Sex

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Learn About MeStart Here

Let's talk about how to explore cannabis in the bedroom 🌿

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Let's Talk about Bisexuality!

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Learn About MeStart Here

I realized I was bisexual at a very young age—here is a bit of my story!

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Erectile Unpredictability

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Body & DesireSex

A question from a reader explores the vulnerable truth of erectile unpredictability.

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Normalize This During Sex!

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Body & DesireSex

A quickie video sharing my thoughts about things we need to normalize during sex!

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Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire

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Body & DesireRelationships & IntimacySex

Some of us are wired to have SPONTANEOUS DESIRE, while others are wired to have RESPONSIVE DESIRE. Knowing this about yourself and your partner is fou

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Quickies: What Does Your Orgasm Mean to You?

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Body & DesireQ&A & ReviewsQuickies

Knowing what's important to us (and to our partners) is super important... especially when it comes to orgasm.

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What Does Your Orgasm Mean to You?

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What does your orgasm actually mean to you, and what does your partner's mean to you? That's the question at the center of this video.

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The Myth of Penetration (I Can’t Orgasm from Penetration—is that Normal?)

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Couples & RelationshipsRelationships & Intimacy

You're not broken or abnormal if you can't come from penetration alone. Most women require some type of clitorial stimulation before, during, or after

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Anal Play for Men: Let's Explore the Pleasure Within!

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Body & DesireSex

The five most important things you need to know to explore anal pleasure 🍑

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8 Fun Facts about Sexual Anatomy

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Body & DesireSex

Knowing how your sexual anatomy works is important to know yourself, your needs, and your sensaations!

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Deeper Touch & Expanded Pleasure for Men Workshop

Sex Ed, Bodies & Desire
Body & DesireMen's Sexuality & PleasurePleasure

A workshop for men that want to feel more and be more in the bedroom.

Relationships & Intimacy

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How To Talk About Sex & Pleasure

Relationships & Intimacy

Talking about sex is hard for most of us—this will make it easier.

Audio

Slow Love: A Reading from Psychology Today

Relationships & Intimacy

What can we learn from a practice of slow love?

Audio

Purple Sex

Relationships & Intimacy

You need to know what purple sex is and how to get out of the purple haze in your partnership! 💜

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Improve Your Love Life with Attachment Theory

Relationships & Intimacy
Relationships & Intimacy

I pulled this workshop from the archives while organizing my zoom library! My Love and I taught this online workshop in August 2023, and it represents

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Roadblocks to Pleasure Conversations

Relationships & Intimacy
Relationships & Intimacy

Having the hard conversations about sex and pleasure.

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Loves, Fears & Desires: A Connection Practice for Couples

Relationships & Intimacy
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This simple and sweet conversation practice can help you get really deep, really fast, and help you know yourself and your partner so much better. May

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6 Healing Relationship Tools for Couples

Relationships & Intimacy
Relationships & Intimacy

Six incredible frameworks for better understanding your partnership. Guaranteed to create change! 🌻

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40 Reasons to Have Sex

Relationships & Intimacy
Relationships & Intimacy

There are lots of reasons to want to have sex—and for most of us, it's not because we're horny 😈

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Shared Pleasure: Mutual Masturbation for Couples

Relationships & Intimacy
Relationships & Intimacy

Mutual masturbation has been such a delicious, transformative form of play for both my partner and me... learn more about the how and why!

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The Ecosystem of Intimacy

Relationships & Intimacy
Relationships & Intimacy

The ecosystem of intimacy is how you create space for great sex to emerge.

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Sex, Pleasure, and Relationships: an Interview with Kiss & Tell Magazine

Relationships & Intimacy
Relationships & Intimacy

Yay, I was interviewed with Dr. Sabrina and Dr. Jenny of the Kiss & Tell Magazine. Here's our podcast!

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Mindful Intimacy & Deeper Sex

Relationships & Intimacy
Couples & RelationshipsMen's Sexuality & PleasureRelationships & Intimacy

Mindful intimacy is a sweet, slow approach to sex and pleasure.

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews

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Quickies: Unboxing a New Toy

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A Sex Coach unboxes her new sex toy.

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Questions for the Sex Coach: Mismatched Libido

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Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

Press play to begin this Pleasure Collective video.

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Want by Gillian Anderson // Book Review

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

What do women really WANT? A book that gives us the answers.

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Questions for the Sex Coach: Should We Fuck First?

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

Here's a recent question I got that reflects a common challenge in heterosexual partnerships, including some of my own experiences

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Questions for the Sex Coach: Orgasm Delay for Men

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

This question comes to us from a man that has a lot of experience with exploring extended states of pleasure, and yet can't quite master the non-ejacu

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Quickies: Can You Desensitize Your Clitoris with a Vibrator? (NO!)

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Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

Quick answer: NO! You're not going to 'wear it out!'

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Quickies: Will a Threesome Run My Relationship?

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Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

When I tell folks what I do for work, I get to hear the juicy questions!

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Quickies: Introduction to the Erotic Blueprints

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Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

The Erotic Blueprints is a framework for helping us better understand who we are as sexual beings.

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Coming Out as a Bisexual Babe

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
Learn About MeStart Here

I'm a bisexual babe in a straight-presenting relationship… here’s part of my story! 🏳️‍🌈

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Quickies: Vella Product Review

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Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

A new arousal product that's in testing mode in our bedroom.

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Questions for the Sex Coach!

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Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

I'm answering a handful of questions that I've collected from students and clients to share with me!

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In My Bedroom: Lube Exploration!

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

Here's a peek at my three favorite lubes, and why I choose one over the other.

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In My Bedroom: Two Favorite Vibes

Quickies, Q&A & Reviews
Q&A & ReviewsQuickies

Here is a video about my two favorite vibes, and why you might like to try one or the other.

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